Testimonies

Members of the Engaging in Molding Choices (EMC) Program are individuals committed to personal growth, self-awareness, and positive decision-making. As participants in the Life, Communication, Financial Literacy, and Mental Awareness Program, members actively engage alongside parents and mentors to build essential life skills that support confidence, resilience, and independence. Through interactive learning and real-world experiences, EMC members strengthen their communication abilities, emotional well-being, and financial understanding—preparing them to navigate life’s responsibilities with clarity, purpose, and leadership. Together, they represent the future of empowered individuals making informed choices and contributing meaningfully to their families, communities, and beyond.

Welcome to our Life, Communication, Financial Literacy, and Mental Awareness Program—also known as Engaging in Molding Choices (EMC)—a transformative, collaborative initiative designed to empower individuals of all ages, with the support of parents and mentors, to build confidence and essential life skills through interactive sessions and real-world learning.

In today’s fast-changing world, success is built not only on knowledge, but on effective communication, emotional regulation, and financial understanding. Through hands-on, interactive sessions and real-life applications, participants develop essential life skills that strengthen self-awareness, resilience, independence, and leadership potential, while preparing them to make informed life decisions.

Through this program, participants—alongside parents and mentors—engage in:

  • Life skills and real-world decision-making

  • Effective communication and building meaningful connections

  • Developing smart financial habits and financial responsibility (including opening and managing bank accounts in partnership with local financial institutions)

  • Navigating DMV processes, applying for passports and completing required documentation

  • Exploring job and career opportunities, along with job preparation support

  • Managing emotions and nurturing positive mental health

Beyond practical skill-building, EMC emphasizes mental health and emotional well-being, recognizing that true success begins with a healthy mindset. The program thrives through collaboration with community leaders, educators, parents, mentors, and local organizations—including the City, Unified School District, Community Colleges, Universities, Banks, Non-Profits, and Businesses. Together, we are engaging in molding choices—building confidence, strengthening communities, and creating brighter futures for all.

Program Team

  • Shawn Parker

    CEO / Founder / Executive Director

    The challenges Parker faced during his upbringing were significant and had a lasting impact on his mental health. He reflects on a childhood with limited teaching and a strained relationship with his father, describing his early family life as dysfunctional. Despite moving between Las Vegas, Albuquerque, and finally Lompoc, CA, Parker acknowledges that while his mother, Sandra White, and stepfather, Kenneth White, instilled a strong work ethic in him, they did not teach him how to manage his finances or prioritize his mental well-being.

    Without an understanding of basic financial stewardship or the tools for emotional resilience, Parker found himself working hard without any real progress. Compounding this struggle were his childhood friends, many of whom fell into various troubles that often led to incarceration, creating a sense of entrapment in his surroundings. Although Parker had the natural athletic talent that might have secured him a football scholarship, an unintended pregnancy with his girlfriend shifted his trajectory.

     

    After holding various jobs at GTE Wireless, Albertsons, Lucky’s, Kmart, the Union Sugar Company, and the U.S. Post Office, Parker eventually opened a cell phone store in Goleta. However, past associations eventually caught up with him, leading him to lose everything he had built. Through this difficult experience, Parker recognized the critical need for personal and financial transformation. He credits Mr. Charles Oxton, an attorney, for helping him acquire essential skills and a healthier mindset that have positively influenced his life.

    Now a father of two, Tiana R. Parker and Masyn D. Parker, from previous relationships, Parker has also dedicated 15 years to part-time work at Trader Joe’s while successfully engaging in various ventures. He understands the vital importance of basic life skills, financial literacy, and mental health education for youth from backgrounds where these lessons are often neglected. A strong and resilient individual radiating a calm and positive outlook, Parker is committed to making a meaningful impact on young people in his community who are in need of guidance and support for both their personal and mental health journeys.

  • Fysal Safieh

    Associate Director

    Fysal graduated from Binghamton University in New York with a degree in Political Anthropology and directly started working for EF International, the world’s largest International Education and Language Instruction organization. As a leader in both of EF’s non-profit divisions he took on the role of School Director for EF’s English language school in Santa Barbara. He then went on to work for Santa Barbara Business College as their Director of International Operations. Fysal has since been active in consulting with developing businesses as well as volunteering with various community organizations.

  • Iliana G. Gonzalez

    Site Coordinator

    Iliana is first generation raised in Santa Barbara. She was born in Mexico City and at the age of 6 came into the US, landing in beautiful SB with her Mother and father and 2 younger sisters. She graduated from San Marcos High School 6 months early to pursue her interest in dance. She worked as a waitress and found her passions for Non-Profits when she began working for the Friendship Center in Montecito. She knew there was a great cause when she assisted in the grant writing process and experience what serving the elderly meant. She went to City College for 2 years, however, realized that her goal of becoming an accountant is not what she wanted to do, so she focused on other areas.

    She transitioned into the banking field after having her first son at 21 years of age and after having her second son at 25, she wanted more for her family. She worked for many different industries, not quite finding her purpose and after working as a Government Contractor for 8 years working projects with companies like Pt. Hueneme Naval Airbase, Pratt & Whitney Rocketdyne, and China Lake Naval Airbase; however, she decided to seek out other opportunities.

    That is when her organization called People Helping People found her. She had known of this company since 2011 but could not see herself doing something outside the Government industry.

    Iliana did not have any experience in any of these fields, however, she realized she needed to be open in 2013 when the Government shut down. It affected her and her family financially tremendously and she did not feel secure.

    In 2015, she was given the opportunity to be a part of this great company. She is now an entrepreneur, certified by the State of California to help many underserved and overlooked families with suffering from Financial cancer. Her and her team of licensed agents insure that their clients have the best solutions to their financial issues; from debt relief to retirement and Long-Term Care. Her goal is to help every generation from new born babies to great-grand parents insure their families change their financial legacy’s forever.

    In her personal time, she is a certified Zumba instructor and give classes if time allows. She dedicates time to her 2 boys, 20 and 16 who are both still in school; loves her Christina Church and hangs out with friends.

Advisory Team

  • Darrel W. Tullis

    Advisor

    Mr. Tullis is a retired Air Force Veteran after serving 21 years on active duty from Jan. 1980 to Feb 2001. He was an F-4E/G Radar Technician before cross-training into Operations Resource Management for the 37 TFW, AWACS and JSTARS. In May of 2000 he completed a Bachelor of Science Degree in Human Services with a Minor in Psychology from Mercer University in Macon, GA. He became an Ordained Minister in June of 2007.

    Rev Tullis grew up in Oxnard, CA where he graduated from Channel Islands High School in 1976. He Graduated from Ventura College in 1978 and as previously stated, entered the USAF in 1980. He comes from a service- oriented family. He has 4 children, 2 who are serving on active duty and 1 married to an active duty member (all USAF). His father, who was the Pastor at Grace Temple Missionary Baptist Church in Lompoc for 22 years, retired from the USAF after serving 20 years. Tullis’ father met his mother while he was serving at Scott AFB, Ill. in 1949. He has a niece and a nephew who were both medically retired from the Army, a nephew who served as a med tech in the Air Force and a great niece who graduated from West Point in May of 2016.

    Rev. Tullis served for nearly 4 years as a Parks and Recreation Commissioner for the City of Lompoc from Nov 2006, Aug 2009 representing, then Mayor, the Honorable Dick DeWeese. He served as a Delegate at the California Democratic State Convention for 2 years, representing the Central Coast, from 2006 – 2008. In Oct of 2007, he was chosen by the Honorable Congresswoman Lois Capps to attend The Central Coast Faith Leaders Day in Washington DC, where he had the honor to meet and speak to several members of congress. He is a member of the NAACP and VFW Troop 570.

    He is a counselor and he has a deep affection for what he believes is God greatest creation—all of mankind.

  • Jared Overton

    Advisor

    Raised in the city of Denver Colorado, Jared Overton grew up as an underprivileged child. East Denver was not without its challenges and bad influences. Narrowly escaping the clutches of the judicial system, at age 18 Jared saw very quickly the ill effects that result from poor decision making. Inspired to make a difference, he relocated to LA where he began to use music as an outlet to incite his peers to positivity. In time Jared joined forces with his brothers and after signing a record deal with Universal Music Group, he used his platform to reach out to troubled youth. Currently volunteering 840 hours a year to a world-wide Bible education program, Jared is also a professional in the insurance industry. Endeavoring to pass on his experiences and advice on life and social skills to adolescence in the Santa Barbara community, Jared became involved with EMC alongside friend and partner Shawn Parker.

  • Ivan Castelo

    Advisor

    “Mr. Castelo joined Union Bank (then Santa Barbara Bank & Trust) in 2008 and has held various positions throughout his career. Mr. Castelo oversees all managerial duties of his offices and customizes financial solutions for clients, specializing in small business and residential lending. His responsibilities include recruiting and interviewing employees for hire, and the ongoing development of branch personnel through evaluations and performance reviews. He provides leadership towards the achievement of branch performance and efficiency, in line with company vision and values. Helping local residents of various backgrounds reach their financial goals is his main priority. The oldest of three boys and a Central Coast native from Hollister, CA, Mr. Castelo was the first of his family to attend and graduate from a 4-year university. He received his B.A. in Mathematics from the University of California, Santa Barbara in 2007, and is fluent in both English and Spanish. He was an active member of Hermanos Unidos, a non-profit organization founded in 1999, that promotes leadership development at the center of the Chicano/Latino community at UCSB. Mr. Castelo is actively involved in our community. He partners regularly with local schools and non-profit organizations to provide financial literacy workshops that focus on banking, budgeting, credit, and mortgage education. He enjoys spending his free time with his wife, his daughter, and his dog Coco. He is also an avid weightlifter.

    Vice President, Branch Manager, Santa Barbara Mesa & San Roque

Board Members

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    Vice President

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    Secretary

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